š” Key Idea: The first 5-10 minutes of a sales call aren't for selling - they're for diagnosing. Your only goal is to find out if the person on the other end has a real, painful problem that you can actually solve.
ā Permission Slip: You have permission to disqualify people. Your goal isn't to convince everyone to buy your product. It's to find the small group of people who are a perfect fit. Be willing to politely tell a prospect you don't think they're a good fit, and why. Your time is your most valuable asset.
By the end of this section, you'll have a small set of powerful, open-ended questions and a simple framework to confidently guide the first 5-10 minutes of any sales call.
Lean into the fact that you're a founder. You're not a coin-operated salesperson running a generic playbook. You're the person who's most obsessed with the problem you solve. Use that to your advantage.
Your superpower is genuine curiosity. When you ask questions, you're not just qualifying a lead - you're also building trust and credibility, and gathering mission-critical product research.
You don't need a long list of questions. You just need a few good ones to get the conversation rolling and uncover the truth. Let's use the example of selling Loom (the video messaging tool) to a product design team.
This is your opener. It's broad and gets them talking about their world.
"Walk me through how you [do the relevant process] today."
Example (for Loom):
Once they've described their process, you need to find the crack in the system.
"What's the most frustrating part about that process?"
Example (for Loom):
ā ļø Try not to lead the prospect. Here's a bad example of a question:
"Where does that process with Slack threads and meetings feel slow or clunky?"
By asking the question this way, you seed in the interviewee's mind that the process might be slow or clunky, when in reality, it may not be.
A problem isn't real until it has a business consequence. This question connects their frustration to a tangible cost (time, money, risk).
"How does that [pain point] impact your team/goals?"
Example (for Loom):
ā ļø Don't assume impact. A bad example is:
"And what's the downstream effect of that delay?"
This assumes there is a negative effect. Asking "Does that cause any issues?" is more neutral and allows them to say "no," which is also valuable data.
This helps you understand how motivated they are and what they've already tried.
"Have you looked at other solutions for this in the past?"
Example (for Loom):
ā ļø Ask broader questions.
Asking "Have you looked at other tools?" is okay, but it's a closed question that limits the answer. Asking "Has the team tried to address this before?" is more open-ended and might reveal they tried to solve it with a new process, not just another tool.
This is your bridge to the demo. You're getting them to articulate exactly what they want, so you can show them just that and nothing more.
"In a perfect world, what would this look like for you?"
Example (for Loom):
ā ļø Encourage big-picture thinking.
A bad example is: "If you could improve one thing..." This can limit the prospect to incremental improvements. Asking them to redesign the process invites transformative answers and uncovers the true scope of their ambition, which is exactly what a founder needs to hear. It's then up to the founder to distill, through additional questioning, which aspects of that new process are need-to-have vs. nice-to-have.
This is a crucial pre-demo check. It helps you distinguish between a problem they have and a problem they're actively trying to solve.
"How high on your list of priorities is fixing [the problem] this quarter?"
Example (for Loom):
ā ļø Don't assume it's a priority.
A bad example is: "How high on your list is this?" This assumes it's already on their list. Asking "Where does it fall?" is a neutral question that allows them to say "It's not on our radar," which is critical information for you.
After you've shown them how your product solves their specific problem, it's time to gauge their actual intent to buy. These questions help you understand if this is a real opportunity or just a "nice-to-have."
"Have you set aside a budget for a solution like this?"
(A simple way to bring up the topic of money.)
"What does your process for evaluating and purchasing new tools look like?"
(This uncovers the path to a real "yes".)
Your job is to ask a good, open-ended question and then be quiet. Let them talk. The awkward silence is where the truth comes out. Don't jump in to fill the void. Listen, take notes, and ask a thoughtful follow-up question. That's the whole game.
Now that you know how to qualify prospects with questions, we'll move into the demo phase. You'll learn the "Show, Don't Tell" approach that lets prospects experience your solution rather than just hearing about it.