Growth Newsletter #305
Hereâs something most founders donât realize until itâs too late: the way you see your startup is completely different from how your customers see it.
Youâre intimately familiar with every feature, every design choice, every pivot. You can recite your positioning deck in your sleep. But your customers are operating on autopilot, making split-second judgments based on mental shortcuts they donât even know theyâre using.
This gap, between your detailed internal map and their quick external assessment, is where most early-stage startups bleed potential revenue.
Today, Iâll show you the three assessments every customer makes in their first interaction with your startup, and how to design for each one. Youâll get a framework you can apply to your landing page to identify exactly where youâre losing people.
The good news: once you understand how people actually make decisions (versus how we wish they made decisions), you can design experiences that work with their brain instead of against it.
â Joey
This week's tactics
The problem: You're the architect, but your customers are the driver
Insight from Joey Noble â Demand Curve Creative Strategist
There are two primary ways humans navigate the world.
The Architect spends hours planning the perfect route. They consult multiple maps, compare traffic patterns, consider weather conditions. They build a detailed mental model of the journey. This is slow, deliberate, logical thinking.
The Driver just⊠goes. They follow familiar patterns. They make instant decisions at intersections. They operate mostly on recognition and gut feel. This is fast, automatic, instinctual thinking.
When it comes to most businesses, youâre the Architect. Your customers are the Driver.
Youâve spent months (or years) fine tuning your product, your positioning, your go-to-market strategy. But when someone hits your landing page or opens your app for the first time, theyâre not pulling out the blueprints. Theyâre driving. Making quick judgments based on patterns theyâve seen before.
Most founder decisions optimize for the Architectâs world. Comprehensive feature sets. Detailed documentation. Nuanced positioning. But they should be optimizing for the Driverâs reality.
And hereâs what makes this tricky: the more you understand your own startup, the harder it becomes to see what your customers actually see.
You know why each feature exists. You understand the technical constraints. Youâve internalized the positioning rationale. This expertise makes you uniquely unqualified to judge whether your startup is easy to navigate for someone seeing it for the first time.
This is why your landing page makes perfect sense to you but confuses prospects. Why your onboarding feels logical internally but causes drop-off externally. Why your positioning seems clear to your team but fuzzy to the market.
Youâre designing for Architects when you need to design for Drivers.
How people actually navigate your startup
When someone encounters your startup for the first time, theyâre not carefully evaluating you. Theyâre quickly assessing whether youâre worth their limited attention and cognitive energy.
Theyâre making three rapid assessments:
- Filter: What can I ignore vs. what demands my attention?
- Commit: Is this worth my effort right now?
- Return: Will I come back to this place?
Most founders get all three wrong. Not because theyâre bad at product or strategy. But because theyâre thinking like Architects (comprehensive, logical, detailed) when they should be thinking like traffic engineers designing for Drivers (fast, pattern-based, energy-conserving).
Letâs break down whatâs actually happening at each stage.
Filter: They're sorting signal from noise in 3 seconds
Your prospect opens your landing page. Their brain is asking: âWhat here deserves my attention?â
This happens in two rapid steps: elimination (what can I ignore?) and categorization (what is this thing?).
Hereâs what most founders miss: the goal isnât to show less. Itâs to create a hierarchy of ignorability that makes the important stuff obvious.
When you land on a page, your brain processes three layers simultaneously:
Layer 1: Peripheral context - Navigation, footers, logos. Your brain pattern-matches these against thousands of sites youâve seen. If theyâre familiar, they get instantly filed as âbackgroundâ and ignored.
Layer 2: Focal candidates - Elements that break the pattern. Your brain flags these as âneeds evaluation.â
Layer 3: Commitment zone - After filtering, your brain decides what deserves conscious attention and whether this fits a problem you have.
The mistake: treating all three layers the same. Making everything âminimalâ removes the contextual scaffolding your brain needs to quickly filter and focus.
What this means for your landing page
Layer 1 must be boringly familiar.
Standard nav (logo left, links right). Conventional footer. Orthodox buttons. When these match expected patterns, theyâre filed as âsafe backgroundâ.
Get creative here, and youâre forcing navigation into Layer 2, where it competes with your value prop.
Layer 2 must be worth the pattern interrupt.
You want 2-3 elements max that demand evaluation:
A headline that violates web copy conventions:
- Donât: âThe modern project management platform for design teamsâ
- Do: âYour design team just missed another deadline because feedback lived in 6 different Slack threadsâ
One visual that doesnât match templates:
- Not generic âclean UIâ shots
- Show the specific problem (those 6 Slack threads)
Social proof that breaks the pattern:
- Donât: Carousel with headshots and 5-star ratings
- Do: âWe cut design review time from 3 days to 4 hours. I showed the CEO and he asked why we didnât have this six months ago. â Sarah Chen, Design Lead at Shipmentâ
Layer 3 closes both loops: what is this + is it relevant to me?
If your headline flagged Slack chaos, you need to both categorize yourself AND resolve the problem quickly:
âProject management for design teams. Like Asana, but built for Figma files and design feedback. All your design reviews, version history, and decisions in one thread. No more âwhich version did they mean?â confusion.â
This does two jobs:
- Categorization: âProject management⊠like Asanaâ - they instantly know what you are
- Relevance: âdesign feedback⊠version history⊠which versionâ - specific problems they recognize
Three tactics that help Filter work
1. Reuse structural patterns, break content patterns
Standard nav placement, conventional footer, orthodox buttons (filterable context). But unexpected problem-focused headlines, specific visuals, concrete social proof (demands attention).
Be creative with your message, conventional with your structure.
2. Lead with the familiar category, then differentiate
âEmail marketing for DTC brandsâ (I know what this is) âfocused entirely on post-purchase sequencesâ (I know if I need this).
Donât say âWeâre creating a new category.â Their brain doesnât have a file folder for you yet.
3. Use anchoring comparisons
âLike Figma, but for data teamsâ immediately answers both âwhat is this?â and âis this for me?â (The movie Alien was famously pitched as "Jaws in space.")
The non-obvious implication
Ultra-minimal landing pages with unconventional layouts often create more friction. Nothing can be quickly categorized. Every element demands evaluation.
Some high-converting pages look âbusyâ to founders but perform well. The busyness creates successful Layer 1 filtering. This makes Layer 2 elements stand out by contrast.
So to test yourself, ask: Can someone answer these in 3 seconds?
- What category is this?
- Is this relevant to a problem I have?
- What would I learn if I kept reading?
If not, youâre designing for people already committed to evaluating you (which is almost nobody on first visit.)
Commit: Theyâre choosing the easiest path, not the best path
Theyâve filtered. They know what you are and whether youâre relevant. Now: âIs this worth my effort right now?â
Not âis this the best option?â The question is: âIs the path to value easy enough that Iâll bother?â
Water flows downhill. Prospects take the path of least resistance. Engineer the terrain to make commitment the easiest direction.
A common trap: Adding friction for qualification. âFill out this 8-field form so we can route you correctly.â Youâve created an uphill climb when theyâre looking for downhill.
Four ways to reduce commitment friction
1. Reduce decision points
Every choice is friction. Signup dropdown with 6 âcompany sizeâ options creates 6 chances to second-guess and bounce.
Default to â1-50 employeesâ and move on. Collect better data later.
2. Split overwhelming actions
Nobody wants to âcomplete your profileâ (sounds like work).
But theyâll âadd your company nameâ (3 seconds). Then logo, then bio, then team size. Each a tiny win instead of one daunting task.
3. Use valid defaults
Pre-select the most common option. If 80% choose âStandardâ plan, select it by default.
4. Reveal features gradually
Donât show everything at once. Like a video game, you unlock capabilities as you progress, keeping cognitive load low.
Three nudges that actually work
Social proof: â2,847 founders used this template last weekâ - removes the âis this worth my time?â question.
Curiosity gaps: âSee how [competitor] increased retention by 40%â - creates an open loop they need to close.
Scarcity: âOnly 3 spots left in this cohortâ - but use sparingly or it becomes suspicious.
People donât fail to commit because theyâre lazy. They fail because every action requires mental energy their brain is trying to conserve. Make commitment the most energy-efficient option.
Return: Every interaction deposits or withdraws
Retention doesnât start when someone becomes a customer. It starts in the first interaction.
After each touchpointâlanding page, onboarding, first emailâtheir brain files away an impression. That impression shapes whether theyâll return and how theyâll interpret future interactions.
Positive impression â More likely to come back, open emails, explore features, forgive bugs.
Negative impression â Primed to ignore you, interpret ambiguity negatively, churn at first friction.
So donât focus all your retention energy on post-purchase while ignoring the psychological ledger maintained from first contact.
Four things that deposit positive psychology
1. Clear feedback
Not âSuccess!â (vague).
But âYour workspace is ready. Hereâs what you can do first:â (specific, forward-looking).
2. Reassurance
âMost teams start hereâ removes âam I doing this right?â
âYou can change this anytimeâ removes âwhat if I pick wrong?â
3. Demonstrate care
After signup, donât immediately push them to invite teammates (your growth goal). First ensure they complete one valuable action (their success goal).
4. Strategic delighters
- Personalized welcome video from your founder
- Checklist adapted to their use case
- Day 3 email asking âwhatâs confusing?â before they churn
The goal: create a memory pattern that says âthis company understands me.â
The peak-end rule
People donât remember experiences as averages. They remember peaks and endings.
Mediocre experience + strong ending = remembered positively.
Great experience + weak ending = remembered negatively.
Your confirmation page, first-day email, welcome experienceâthese arenât afterthoughts. Theyâre determining whether they return.
Donât end with âWelcome! Here are 47 features to explore.â
End with âYou just took the first step. Hereâs exactly what happens next, and hereâs how weâll help you succeed.â
Where to start
Pick your highest-stakes first impression (usually your landing page). Audit each phase: Filter, Commit, Return. Fix the biggest friction point first. Test with people whoâve never heard of you and watch where they hesitate, misinterpret, or give up.
This is painful. Youâll see them miss âobviousâ things and misunderstand careful positioning. Good. Thatâs the gap between your map and their territory.
Small improvements compound aggressively.
- Better Filter â more reach Commit.
- Better Commit â more complete actions.
- Better Return â more come back.
These arenât additive, theyâre multiplicative.
You donât need to be perfect. Just easier to navigate than your competitors.
The more you understand your startup, the harder it becomes to see it through fresh eyes. The Territory Framework forces you to map from the customerâs perspective, not the founderâs.
Most founders optimize for how they want customers to think. Better founders optimize for how customers actually think.
The map is not the territory. Fix the navigation, and watch everything else start moving in the right direction.
âJoey Nobleâ
Demand Curve Creative Strategist





